A sweet bond

Tonight Hannah made the precious observation that 100% of Bright Birthing doulas are currently nursing our children. Whether you are establishing a brand new breastfeeding relationship or preparing to wean, please check in with us if you have any concerns, questions or joys to share!

Why "Village Circle?"

Several years ago at the annual conference of the MIdwives Alliance of North America (MANA) I had the pleasure of hearing Sister Morningstar speak. On multiple occasions I'd been moved by pieces she had written in Midwifery Today, none more so than this piece on what she calls Village Prenatals. 

"The mothers come from near and far. They have a variety of birth plans and care providers. We are there to shower them with village attention and support and to bathe them in a sense of belonging and being cherished. The one inspiration and encouragement we echo over and over in our stories, on our walks, in our drumming and deliciously in our feasting is this: Trust your Instincts. Follow what makes sense to you. Do it your way. Take your time. Find a place of peace to make decisions. Speak your Truth. Find your Truth. Your body has all the right answers. No one has your knowing. Build your instincts. Trust your instincts."

My doula compatriots and I decided to bring that spirit to our clients and the greater community of childbearing folks in Charlottesville. Our version is a monthly gathering, open to all and free of charge where we share stories and support, often hosting speakers and folks with special skills and knowledge. Sometimes we have craft projects, meditations, picnics, classes - but always the spirit of supporting one another with validation and love. Join us the last Sunday of each month - details of location and topic will always be shared here and on our facebook page!

All is "calm," all is bright...

Did you sense the sarcasm indicated by the quotation marks in the post title? What a year, what a season, what a delicious and wonderful holiday party we shared! One of our doulas was attending a birth, but her husband and daughters were with us - one of them a 2016 babe herself. We were joined by Liz of Talking Drum Herbals and her family, all of whom very much feel like part of the Bright Birthing crew. 

From all of us to all of you, we hope it's been a time of celebration and enjoying the warmth of family and friends. May 2017 bring all good things to you and yours!

The Only Souls Astir

It’s 3:00am. Sufi woke up at 1:30am and I spent a half hour reading about toddler sleep while she cried in her crib for me, the longest by far that I’ve ever left her to cry hoping that she’ll get down on her own. My alarm is set for 5:00am to get to work and I can’t get back to sleep. She’s quiet now, sound asleep, and yet I can still hear her crying.

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